What's wrong with my boyfriend? Just shy?

To me, if a guy really likes a girl, he will show her that he cares in some way such as getting her flowers if she asks or just doing it because it is a nice gesture and will take her out sometimes and try to find things that she likes to do and ask her. He won't just come over to her house because it is free and easy and take the easy way out. Your boyfriend is basically a selfish kind of guy, even if he has some good traits that makes you want to continue seeing him. Since you talked to him and he isn't willing to change, then you need to make a choice before you go any further with him. Either accept him as he is and that he probably ISN'T going to change or break up with him and see others, like the cute boy who sounds so much nicer who wants to treat you the way you deserve to be treated.