10 year relationship ending?

I know how are you feeling,you dont want to lose her and at the same time you are trying to respect her space and not seem so pushy.Your behavior could send her mixed signals,she does not know what exactly you are thinking by just saying a few words to her and keeping your distance.Trust me she is more in pain than you are but she wants to keep her dignity and wants you to prove to her what she means to you and how much you love her,she is dying to know what is in your mind,but since you dont want to get too verbal, just maybe you need to show her INDIRECTLY how sad and in pain you are.Some times when she is around and you guys are silent ,you start weeping /crying quietly(like when you guys are in bed but not asleep)or things of that nature.Believe me she would be so ciorious to know what is bothering you so much to the point that you cant even hold your tears and would ask you, then you can open up to her and tell her everything that is in your heart.Or you can buy/borrow a ring and put it in a place so that she can ACCIDENTALY see it and think you were gonna propose.Anything ,just anything can help.Im 32 and been married for 14 years and know how hard it is to be on the verge of losing the love of your life.I just burst into tears a few times while I was reading your post and I totally understand your pain.The things that I said may sound so silly or childish but we are all children in the inside and we need to do everything possible to keep the people we love.As I said she just wants to know how much you really love her and thats why she does not innitiate any moves although she is dying to go back to your loving arms.Take it from a woman in love,after all she is a woman and more emotionally attached to you than you are to her,it is just the issue of pride. Try what I said,you dont have anything to lose.